That is the question. When I started this blog I had grand plans to post minimum 2 x week, to keep it authentic and small. I wanted to channel 2009 blogging. I wanted to be a better family historian while avoiding Instagram. I wanted old school Cup of Jo vibes, but with a different world view. IYKYK.
The project officially got interrupted by my 10 year old who started waking up early to do math, intruding on my only uninterrupted, quiet hour. And then I was totally sabotaged by a busy, mobile, and very climb-y toddler. I gave up temporarily. Surrendered. I will have a hobby when I'm dead.
Also, I'm perpetually conflicted about sharing on the internet, especially about kids. Is it safe? Will they resent me for sharing their pictures or things about their personality? I don't totally buy into the whole "it's their story to tell" mentality because it's also my story. They are my story, and I do think it's possible to share with class and discretion. Anyways, it's complicated.
One time I was talking to a friend about oversharing. I was saying I wish I could be one of those people who is reserved and mysterious. She immediately replied, no -- you are being hospitable with yourself (when you share). I certainly feel that way about others.
I think it takes wisdom to know what to share and what not to share. Thoughts?
I leave you with some cute Jill pics. My dad took these when we were in Jackson over the weekend. She's 20 months old!
Oh goodness. I definitely don’t see you as an oversharer. You share with “class and discretion” while protecting your children’s vulnerabilities.
ReplyDeleteLove these pix of precious Jill!! What a doll. And Doc is a very good photographer. -- Lynn
ReplyDeleteSuch good thoughts! Discretion is such a fine line that I always grapple with. Here’s to a different world view than CoJ and hobbies when we’re dead! —Kirby
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