summer 2024 uniform

I adore the concept of a uniform! This one is my go to for this summer. 

1. crew neck T,  J.Crew Factory

2. linen shorts, Old Navy

This outfit is perfect for days at home, traveling (hello elastic waist band!), errands, chasing my toddler, curling up for an afternoon power nap, whatever. Throw on some jewelry and lipstick and I can even take this look to a restaurant. I love the mix and match of colors. The variations keep it interesting, and yet it is the same!

I was discussing style with some friends lately and they said let's embrace more of what's already working. This is what's working. It's simple. My style is simple. And it's not boring because there are so many combos. Also, the accessories really shine when paired with such basics. 

Do you have a summer uniform?

best summer sandwich + farmer's market

This is a favorite, an open faced tomato and cucumber sandwich. Good enough for company and doesn't get any easier!

Ingredients: 

Good bread, toasted. I like bagels, too

chive and onion cream cheese

farmer's market cucumbers and tomatoes

salt and pepper

.......

I have committed to going to the farmer's market every week to get tomatoes and cucumbers. If you follow the Lazy Genius, this falls under her decide once philosophy. I have decided (once) that if we are low on tomatoes and cucumbers, it's worth a special trip to restock. I could get distracted by all the other produce, but that takes a lot of decisions, so I keep it simple with tomatoes and cucumbers only. Also, those 2 produces are always affordable.

to share or not to share

That is the question. When I started this blog I had grand plans to post minimum 2 x week, to keep it authentic and small. I wanted to channel 2009 blogging. I wanted to be a better family historian while avoiding Instagram. I wanted old school Cup of Jo vibes, but with a different world view. IYKYK.

The project officially got interrupted by my 10 year old who started waking up early to do math, intruding on my only uninterrupted, quiet hour. And then I was totally sabotaged by a busy, mobile, and very    climb-y toddler. I gave up temporarily. Surrendered. I will have a hobby when I'm dead. 

Also, I'm perpetually conflicted about sharing on the internet, especially about kids. Is it safe? Will they resent me for sharing their pictures or things about their personality? I don't totally buy into the whole "it's their story to tell" mentality because it's also my story. They are my story, and I do think it's possible to share with class and discretion. Anyways, it's complicated. 

One time I was talking to a friend about oversharing. I was saying I wish I could be one of those people who is reserved and mysterious. She immediately replied, no -- you are being hospitable with yourself (when you share). I certainly feel that way about others. 

I think it takes wisdom to know what to share and what not to share. Thoughts?

I leave you with some cute Jill pics. My dad took these when we were in Jackson over the weekend. She's 20 months old!